If you are not failing then you are not moving, you are in a box of situations / goals created by [others / your society] and you are trying to accomplish it (getting a job in big company, earning money higher than anyone you know, getting the biggest house, getting a car) these comparisons are creating an illusion around you [A BOX] that this is your goal. But do you really think is that what makes you happy?
Even when you fail in accomplishing them you try to think positive to live with them because you don’t trust yourself.
If you really want to know real you, you have to feel that box / cage [created by others] and you have to step out and think what you exactly want, go into your childhood and try to remember what you felt, when you saw an older woman begging for a coin, what you decided to be or how you decided to help her, or anything which strikes you to be something, bring that real you in yourself, dream it now and but do set a goal because …
A DREAM WITHOUT A GOAL IS JUST A DREAM